True Friend

This was not really about me but.... yea. just think about it.


You say that you are "friends"
you might go as far as saying "best friends" or something similar
but how do you know if thats really true
saying something does not make it true
the way you act does and sometimes... that proves what you say is wrong

One day you say best friends the next day you leave them out
what happens after that?
do you slowly slip away
or
magically become best friends again
think about that...

Next time you are trying to decide who to hang out with
don't so much think of the friend you like the most
think about the ones you are slowly going to not have

You might not notice it
and they might not show it
but deep down the ones you leave out
will fade away from you

And you will think about how much you think they have changed
but really they just decided to move on
and they might not look hurt but really
they probably hurt more then you will ever over them
because they had to make the decision to move on

You cant pretend to be friends forever after awhile it will just stop.
you might not realize it for awhile but then it will hit you
and by then they will not care if you want them back because they will find new friends
and have new plans
and then you will understand how they felt but... it will be to late

Next time you have to chose friends maybe think about that
it will save a lot of pain and a lot of tears
and maybe if you are lucky
it will save a friendship... or maybe more then one.